3 Guaranteed Ways to Get You More Online Attention

By: | August 2, 2015 | Tags: , , |

Networking leads to blog trafficHow do you engage blog readers?
It’s a question as old as blogging itself.
Is engaging your readers and promoting your blog the same thing?
By promoting your blog, you will make readers aware of your writing. By
making readers aware of your writing, you will be attempting to engage them.
Hopefully, that “foot in the door”, their awareness of your presence, will lead to them become not only engaged readers but potential followers.
There are many ways to promote your blog in order to engage potential readers. This post will explain how to thoroughly promote your blog through networking.

How to Increase Blog Traffic By Networking

I. Comment on other people’s blogs.
There is a sequence to this:
Step 1: Consistently read blogs that you enjoy. Make sure the blogs are in your niche.
Step 2: Make insightful comments on the blogs’ posts by responding to the authors.

The usual protocol is as follow: you read a blog, you reply in the comment section.  Hopefully, a reader will see your comment and be so intrigued by it, they will follow you back to your site.  My post How to Increase Traffic By Writing Better Comments explains how you can ensure that the blog’s readers will see your comments.

One of those methods entails being the first commenter on the blog.

What if you can’t be the first commenter?  There is a simple way to guarantee the readers of the blog see your comment for potential engagement.  Write them directly on the blog.

According to SuccessfulBlogging.com, “Many experts preach the virtues of strategic commenting, [but] almost nobody tells you how to do it.”

I will tell you now.  Change your mindset.

  • Do not comment on the blog’s content.  Respond to the writer.  There is a difference.

First of all, if you comment on the content, you are only writing the author.  Most people who comment solely write “good tips”.  Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate comments.  Most bloggers do.  I certainly love compliments.  But, “good tips” is a comment, not a response.

  • Do not just write the author of the post.  Write the authors of the comments on the post.  Respond to them.  State their opinion, then tell them if you agree or disagree.  Make dialogue.

You will make that commenter feel heard.  People love to feel understood.  Will it make them feel good enough to follow you back to your blog to see what else you’ve written?  Possibly.  If you don’t write the other commenters, and hope they notice your comment, the odds are much slimmer.

I often have Meet and Greets.  They are great, a real party.  At a real party the guests talk to each other.  However, no one seems to talk to each other on a blog you are all interested in.

I am not saying to leave your link to your site or your post unless it’s a party or Meet and Greet.  That would be considered spamming.  But, you can still talk to each other.  Do you agree with the other commenters?  Disagree?  Why?  It’s a blog!  Engage!
Step 3: When a reader comes from one of those blogs, reads your post, and comments, go to their blog, read their post, and make an insightful response on their blog.
You might wonder how you will know if a commenter came from that initial blog. There is no need to wonder. Check your stats. “Referrers” will tell you where people are clicking your link.
It is important to understand commenting is a two-way street. Growing readership is about building bonds with people. Reciprocation builds bonds.
2. Attend Linky Parties

  • Attend big linky parties.

You are trying to maximize your ability to attact new readers, so the more bloggers at the linky party the better.
You might wonder how you will know if it is a “big” linky party. After all, only if you go in last, right before the linky closes, and then click “Take me back to the link up”, will you know what number you were and how many others came before you.
Linkies take work. Therefore, the more hosts or hostesses the party has is indicative of how many bloggers they expect.
The Inspire Me Monday Linky Party that I hold on Monday takes eight women to manage.
Look on the linky party post. It will tell you how many sites the party is held on. Again, the more sites, the bigger the party, and the more bloggers to potentially meet you.
Another reason big linky parties are preferable to small linky parties has to do with probability. The more bloggers that are there, the greater the likelihood that there will be people there in your niche that will be interested in your writing to help you grow your audience.
The downside to “big” linky parties is the competition. With so many bloggers, your chances of getting noticed is diminished.
Three factors can increase your chance of getting noticed at a big linky party. Have an eye-catching graphic, have an intriguing headline, and link your post early.

Due to my recent vacation schedule, I was unusually late to the biggest linky party on Earth–the SITS Girls.  Look what a reader commented–

Janice – your thumbnail for this post was one of the first that jumped out at me at the SITS Sharefest this morning. Color…

Even though hundreds of links came before mine, due to the color in the graphic I linked, I received traffic.

  • Attend small linky parties.

The reason I have this as an additional step merely has to do with time constraints.
All the advantages of linky parties exist whether you attend big or small linky parties. Therefore, if you only have limited time to attend linky parties, use the time to attend the parties where the possibility of meeting new bloggers is greater, the “big” ones.

  • When you are done linking your post, click “Take me back to the linkup,” and repeat “I. Comment on other blogs” instructions Steps 1 through 3.

Read posts that seem interesting by looking at the headline and the graphic and make insightful comments. If people click your links and come from those blogs, go to their blogs, read, and respond to their posts.
3. Promote your new readers.
Okay, so you’ve followed Steps 1 and 2, and your readership is growing.
Now is the time to solidify those bonds. Through your reciprocating interest, you have turned commenters into readers. Now turn readers into permanent followers. This is how to do it:

  • When you are done commenting on their post, click “share”.

Facebook and Twitter are great places to share links. I use Twitter, but others have graciously shared my links on Facebook as well as Twitter.
When the admin bloggers go on their social media, and see you have shared their links, relationships get solidified.
I do a great deal of networking on Twitter with people I have met on blogs. It feels like running into a friend in a place you don’t normally expect to see them.

  • Chat

That it. Chat. When you are on Twitter, comment. Make conversation.
You might ask, “Isn’t that what the comments section in the blog post is for?”
My answer is “no”. If you only comment on their blog post, you are not forging relationships. Blogging is about community. Make friends.
There is a downside to only retweeting their link. (Again, I only use Twitter for this, so I am only referencing Twitter.)
Although you are promoting them, it can almost look spammy. Why would you retweet their link? Is it because you want them to do the same for you?
By making conversation on Twitter or Facebook, you are making more than conversation, and you are making more than a blog audience. You are making friends.

In closing, these three tip will definitely garner you the attention of potential readers.  You will write them directly on the blog where you found them, on your blog, and on their blog. However, it should go without saying that you still need great content.

Blogging isn’t just about you, and it isn’t just about your readers. Blogging is about a network of connections, relationships, that form. It is about supporting each other.
According to Ray at BritishMum.com, blogging “is all about the community feeling”.
If you are successful at finding an audience, you will be successful at finding long-lasting relationships.

According to Anna at fargaregardsanna.wordpress.com, “My new followers often come from my own activity when visiting other blogs. I might have liked their comments or I have left a comment in a post or two.”  Anna’s only promotional strategy is networking, and her blog growth is successful.

Show me a successful blogger, and I’ll show you a blogger with many friends.  Talk about a win-win situation! Now, go network!
If you feel others can benefit from these networking tips, please share. (I promise I won’t think it’s spammy.)
Readers, do you have any ideas for networking? I look forward to your views.

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  1. blondieaka

    As always great blog, a helpful insight into successful networking…Thank you 🙂

    • john doe

      I completely agree completely with your other commentators. Another “A” post for Janice

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Blondieaka,
      Thank you so much for the kind words about my article. I’m glad you found the ideas helpful. Thank you for writing.

      • blondieaka

        You are welcome Janice ..I need all the help I can get …ha ha…..But thanks where it’s due I was always taught…:)

    • Janice Wald

      Hi James,
      I’m so glad you liked the article. Do you feel you’ve found a niche? Is it humor blogging?

      • James

        I think humor is the best description of what I do, but humor is so subjective that finding ‘like-minded’ bloggers is still tricky. The posts that generate the best response for me tend to be my flash fiction posts – that’s possibly because I write them as part of a ‘blogging event’ though.

  2. Gaurav Chaplot

    Your idea are perfect, Janice. I usually try the first two, but never thought about sharing fellow bloggers’ posts on Social Media, but now that I know the importance, I’ll do it for sure.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Gaurav,
      I’m glad the article had a new tip for you to try. I always hope there is at least one new idea for people to try. Thanks so much for your compliment about my article.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Judy!
      Thank you for your kind comments. You have been an inspiration to me. I love your Weekly Link Roundup idea. Thanks for writing me today!

      • edwinasepisodes

        Thank you for your kind words Janice and your brilliant blogging advice. I have tried out a few of your tips 🙂

        • Janice Wald

          What high praise Judy! Thank you! I am planning on moving to a self-hosted site mostlyblogging.com. I hope you’ll follow me over there when I go.

          • edwinasepisodes

            Yes, I’ll be there 🙂

  3. sandylingo47

    What a wonderful blog! I subscribed a week ago, and already I have learned so much. As one blogger to another, I wanted to let you know that the links at the bottom about promoting your blog did not work for me. I got the message, “Cannot edit this post” when I clicked on it. I may have done something wrong–it’s probably user error–but just in case it’s something wrong with the links, I wanted to let you know.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Sandylingo!
      Thank you for following my blog, reading what I wrote, and commenting. Thank you as well for the nice words about my article.
      As far as my links, thank you for letting me know. They seem to work throughout the article, but not at the bottom. I will delve into how to fix the problem. Thanks again.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Sandylingo,
      I wanted to let you know that I fixed the links at the bottom of my networking posts. Thank you for the “heads up” that they were broken.

  4. purpleslobinrecovery

    Gaurav, I never shared before this post either. But if Janice says do, then I better do it! She’s one smart cookie. You won’t be sorry!

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Melinda,
      You took the advice in the article–you wrote another commenter directly! Thanks for your comments and the nice compliments to Gaurav.

  5. Rob Alberts

    Walking around on the internet, hopping from blog to blog, I read a lot.
    Sometimes I write something down.

    Your advice: “Respond to the writer.” is very strong!
    Thank you.

    I will return to your blog.

    Kind regards,

    • Janice Wald

      Thanks Rob!
      When I first started blogging, I wrote a post that got many comments. The commenters didn’t agree with me, but they agreed with each other, so they started writing each other. It was refreshing for me to see, like a real community. I’m glad you appreciated that tip. Thank you for writing.

  6. Trudy

    Good morning Janice! You’re on your game, no vacation fatigue. Loved the post and you’ve been stumbled! Enjoy your day!

    • Trudy

      Oh and I’ll have to practice some of these tips more diligently. I’ve done most of them but I’m finding that I don’t always get a response back on Twitter so it’s kind of hit or miss.

    • Janice Wald

      Wow! What a great compliment! I hope you will follow me to my new site mostlyblogging.com when I move.

          • Trudy

            You can export everything including the same name and your followers. I’m self hosted.

          • Janice Wald

            How exciting! I didn’t know these things.

          • Trudy

            That’s what took me so long to start a blog. It was many fold, I wanted to add to my resume for social media, work on writing skills and ultimately be creative writing about a subject matter that I enjoy.

          • Janice Wald

            Are you notified of my replies?

          • Trudy

            I’m on my phone and the WordPress app has been wonky as of late.

          • Trudy

            I’m always notified on my laptop at the top if the screen, I’m assuming it’s the same for wordpress.com,, I have the option of using the typical blue and white homepage or more administrative homepage through my posts because I’ve linked wordpress.com and wordpress.org together

          • Janice Wald

            How are your readers notified when you respond?

          • Trudy

            Its the same as with wordpress.com , you get notifications at the top of the screen . The comment icon lights up. You get that on your screen too right?

          • Trudy

            They get notified through the WordPress tray at the top of screen. It lights up in the comment icon

          • Janice Wald

            I will look. Thanks

          • Trudy

            It’s very rare though.

          • Trudy

            Besides owning my work and monetizing which are pluses, I miss out on small things like reblogging.

          • Janice Wald

            I hope you will let me pick your brain

          • Trudy


    • Janice Wald

      PS Thank you for stumbling. Send me some links, so I can return the favor. I am STILL getting traffic from there. Thanks,

  7. Leisel

    Odd, I’m unable to visit any of the related links you’ve added in the post. WordPress is under the impression that I’m trying to edit them. Pretty sure it isn’t user error at this point as I’ve tried direct-clicking, opening in new tab, and opening in a new window. Pretty sure it’s not a cache issue, but I cleared mine anyway. Please advise, Janice.

    • Janice Wald

      It is a Word Press problem, a glitch. I’ve notified Word Press, they said they’d get back to me.

      • Leisel

        I thought as much. No matter, I’ll check back later! Thanks for the update.

    • Janice Wald

      I will fix broken links when I return home. Visiting my daughter at college. I think I know what to do.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Leisel,
      I was able to fix the links under Related Posts at the bottom of my networking post. I wanted you to know that all is well now.

  8. lindasblogs

    Great advice. Can I add one more? Blogging conference.You actually meet other bloggers, in person! It was nice to see a few follows from people I met.

  9. Janice Wald

    Hi Linda,
    Thanks so much for contributing this tip. I know another blogger that went to a conference and had the same experience to report that you did. Great advice! Thanks for writing,

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  11. Victoria Griffin

    Great post! I’m planning to host my first Linky party this Sunday, and I would love any tips you might have!

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Victoria! It’s been great seeing you on Pinterest. I have a post coming out tomorrow on Pinterest. I have a great article on how to throw a ;-Linky party, but sadly my links don’t work. I have contacted the word press people. When the situation is resolved, I would love to send you all the information I have.

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  13. Vasantha Vivek

    Reblogged this on My Sweet Nothings and commented:
    An interesting and useful post for my blogger friends … 🙂

  14. Elena Peters

    It sounds like a lot of work doesn’t it? But I consider reading other blogs➡️research, posting comments➡️ honing my writing skill and joining parties➡️Networking. Plus it’s just plain old fun! I love how down to earth your posts are Janice. I learn something new every time I visit your blog, a great source of information.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Elena,
      These are such kind words which are definitely putting a smile on my face. Another commenter wrote that networking sounds like a lot of work. However, I agree with you. Networking is part of blogging. It’s why I don’t produce new content every day, so I have time to network.
      I have more questions for you about redirecting traffic from my old to my new site. Would it be best if I Emailed you? I don’t know your Email. Mine is janicegreenfield123@gmail.com. Thank you.

  15. LaShon Renee

    All of your tips sound very useful and I hope apply at least some of them. It can be a challenge because it takes so much time and effort to promote your blog these days that it can be discouraging but I will press on.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi LaShon,
      Nice to meet you. Thank you so much for reading what I wrote and commenting. I agree with your points that networking can be time-consuming, and another reader noted that as well. I have also written many posts about how to save time when blogging. LOL Welcome to my site.

  16. Sam

    Hi Janice. I read so many articles which promise ways to increase traffic. Yours is the first one that has given me tools which I really feel I could implement. Now if I can just find more time in the day. Thanks!

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Sam,
      Thank you so much for reading my article and your glowing comments as well. Three easy ways to get readers to your site, that’s all it takes. However, like others, you’ve noted this sounds time-consuming. At my site, I have many articles about not only increasing traffic but time-saving blogging tips as well. I am trying to increase my following and there are free exclusive incentives for signing up. I’d love to have your readership.

  17. Jessica Lasseter

    I just started my blog last month, and have been trying desperately to figure out how to grow beyond just my family and friends following it. I’ve been reading everything I can about this topic, and this has been by far the most helpful!

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Jessica,
      I never responded to this comment. I know we only just met, but I am glad that so far you are finding my site helpful. I look forward to pinning with you on Pinterest. Thank you for writing me.

  18. Heather Lynn

    Great post!
    I absolutely love linky party’s! You have access to so many new blog posts and new bloggers! A bundle of new talent to dive into! 🙂

    The only thing I noticed on here, that I have a different opinion on, is RTing the bloggers post.
    I often do that bc the same people who would read the post if I shared it, would read it if I RTed it.
    At least if I RT it, I feel the likely hood of someone clicking on that persons profile is higher. (I’m not sure if I’m explaining that correctly lol).
    But I do mix it up. If I’m RTing a post from the blogger, it’s so the blogger gets more exposure. 🙂

    Thank you for sharing this post on SITS sharefest! 🙂 I look forward to reading through more of your posts!
    – Heather Lynn

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Heather,
      Nice to meet you. Thanks for coming over from SITS on Saturday. I’m sorry I didn’t reply sooner. I am so impressed with your article’s name and your site, I went to try to follow your blog but unsuccessfully. I clicked submit but got a blank screen. Can you please advise? Maybe even sign me up for your blog?
      Email: janicegreenfield123@gmail.com. I will activate my subscription. Thanks.
      Thank you for your interest in my posts. You said you love linky parties. I am having one right now by the way as I do every Monday.
      I look forward to future interactions.

      • Janice Wald

        Hi again Heather,
        1. I received notification that I subscribed to your blog, so all is good.
        2. I didn’t thank you earlier for your nice comment about my article.
        I am pleased to meet you. I don’t meet a lot of bloggers who blog about blogging like I do.

  19. l

    This is such an informative post. I’ve read elsewhere how important it is to comment but your post is the only one I’ve found that gives such detail on how to do it. I can’t wait to read some of the other posts you’ve linked to…this was so helpful that I want to learn more! xoxo

    • Janice Wald

      Thank you so very much for the kind words. I would love your readership. I have many articles like this on my site.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi again,
      I wanted to share that the post I just published explains where to network not just how to do it, if you are interested.

  20. Diatta

    These are very good tips and I have seen increased traffic when I put these into practice. #sitsblogging

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Diatta,
      Thank you for clicking my post and validating my tips. Nice to meet you.

  21. Jamie

    Thanks for sharing these great ideas! My blog is only about a month old, and I have been trying to do a lot of your suggestions. I’m really very new to Twitter and still trying to figure it out, so I particularly appreciate those tips. I try to retweet people to help promote their posts, but you are right that doing that can tend to look spammy. I’ll try to add more comments and communication. I really do enjoy the networking side of blogging, you can meet so many great new people. 🙂

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Jamie,
      Thank you so much for dropping by my site on Saturday. I’m glad you enjoyed my networking post. I have many posts like this at my site. You mentioned you are new. I help new bloggers. I am trying to expand my following. If you are interested in more blogging tips, click this link: http://wp.me/P6x6vQ-hM
      I am currently offering three incentives for signing up. Thanks for your interest in my article.

    • Janice Wald

      Hi Sherrie,
      Thank you for the compliments on my article and sharing it with your sister-in-law. I just received a few new followers recently. I wonder if she is one of them. Thanks for referring me! I should give people finders fees, LOL.
      Thanks for dropping by today.

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